Paavam Boys!


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Innocent-Iyer/Iyengar Paiyan.

The other day, I was talking to my friend Kuchu (Kichu va naangalaam chellama apdi daan kupduvom 😛 ).

Pesinde irukartha, I asked him “Yen da Kuchu mookaala azharei?” adhuku he replied, “Noku ennadi teriyum naanga padara kashtam pathi…neenga girls mattum kashta padardhilla, we are equally kashta pattufying yaar”

Apdi enna daan daa ungalukku kashtam nu keta , avan sonaan… Enna sonaangradha neengale padeengo.

 “Kalyana vayasu nu vandhuta, like girls, even boys have loads of kashtams. Already namba community la Girls romba kammi. Irukara Tambrahm girls la 20% Chetan Bhagat oda 2 States novel oda story madri love story vechruka..

  • Pazhakka Vazhakkams : Engalukku Perusa oru apdi ipdi pazhakkams laam illa… Though we don’t booze or smoke or do such kundravy things, ponnoda family members CID maadri enga frnz ta kekara…frnz  pakki fellows ozhunga unmaiya solluvaa nu paatha onnuku renda potu kuduthruva… Avanunga beer adikara samayathula naanga more adippom….aanalum ivaa nambardhilla…ponnu kuduka maaten nu sollidara.
  • Education : Padippu nu vandhuta anga expectations rombave jaasti aagidardhu baa… IIT-IIM-ISB or USA la MS pannina boys ah daan expect pannara… Naanga edho kutty college la padichu, oru alavukku sambadhikarom…  Oru vela College name value va irukumo nu summa gethukaaga college peru maathi podalaam nu paatha, adhu thappu nu pin vaandgidarom. Yen dee ma ippadi brands and brand name ah vechu paiyana choose pannarel? Naangalum human beings daan, manasu ullavanunga daan.
    • Job: Most of them want only well qualified, hi-fi techies or CA’s or professionals… Just degree  or  local colleges la MBA pannina boys na office la tea podara paiyan ah paakara madri paakara yaa… Apdi paatha, avaalukellam epdi kalyanam aagum?
  • Spirituality – Sandhya Vandhanam : Naangal SandhyaVandhanam 2 times correct ah panninaalum engala paathu – “Yaara impress pannarthuku da scene podrei” nu kelvi kekara sila per. Sila perukku only Sandhya Vandhanam pannara boys illama, Vedam – Shastram laam terinju vecha paiyan venum nu sollara. Koil ku pochuna “Site adika daane varai” nu oru mami ketaa…annelerndhu naan andha koil ke pogardhu niruthitten…. Being spiritual, Swamy Sevikarthuku nu pochuna mami kiterndhu pechu vanga vendi varudhu…..
  • Salary-Pay- Money- Dabbu- Luxuries : Idhu daan ellathuvida main criteria… Matrimony profile la ,ellarum jadagam paakaralo illiyo, enga salary mela daan first kannu veipa… En friend ku  ponnu paaka ponappo, andha ponnu avan ta ketaa “Unga salary package nanna irukku, neenga own car laam vechrukela? After marriage, holiday nu pogartha, foreign ku kutindu povela? Own flats irukka? ” En friend indha questions kekarche literally he had tears. Appa-Amma engala padikka veika vaangina loan ah repay pannarthuke half salary poidardhu, aprom, avaal ku konjam amount naanga kudukaame yaaru kuduppa, nu, konjam amount appa-amma ku kudupom…micham irukara money ah vechu, idhellam enga samalikardhu… Decent living ku vendiya amount daan engalta irukku….Adhula adjust pannara girls daan venum nu naanga innocent pug bow bow maadri odhingidarom.
  • Expectations :  Good looking- Handsome – Well qualified – Nice family background -Job in good organisation-Kai neraiya kaasu – Oru own veedu-Kutty Car- Weekends velia suthanum – Photo edukarthuku oru Dslr Camera – Spiritual – Avaloda Family va madhikanum.
  • Over Expectations : Very Handsome like Bollywood or Hollywood heroes – Over qualified – Family lendhu veraiya irukanum – High job position – Very Well paid – Own bungalow – Atleast oru Skoda car – Holiday in foreign countries – Professional photographer- Very spiritual- Enga family nambaloda daan irukanum.

Idhu yaarayum solli kuttham illa, ellam kaalam vilayadardhu.

Expectations na parava illa…indha over expectations ah paatha engalukku kalyaname aagadho nu bhayama irukku. Indha conditions laam fulfill panna, naanga kashta pattu, every expectation ah real ah maatharthuku hard work panni panni tired aagitom…

All we want is someone, who serves us fresh filter kaapi as soon as we wake up. Vera oru expectations um illa.

We’d love to take our future wife for shopping and will be equally supportive, just that we don’t tell it out. Ippo neeye sollu, aren’t we kashtapattufying like you girls do? ”

Avan sollartha, enaku namba Tambrahm boys ah nenaicha paavama irukku… paavam, avaalum enna daan panuva, oruthar porandha, avaaluku vendi oruthar porandhurka nu nichayam….adhunaala nambale summa tension eduthukardhu waste…. So boys, enjoy, and don’t worry, you will find someone who will serve you filter kaapi daily in the morning.  🙂

P.S. : Dear Feminists, this is a post on demand…  “Yen di, neeyum ponnu daane ippadi yen ezhudarei” nu mattum ketudadheengo…. Indha pinju , kozhandai manasu thaangaadhu… In case innum kovama irukkel naa  Ammaa Please – indha link ah click panni padeengo….. 😀

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